82 Questions To Ask A Girl

1. What is the first thing you notice in a guy?

> His appearance.

2. How would you describe your version of a perfect home?

> I always wanted to live in the countryside. A cottage build in the middle of a green land, a farm beside with sheepdogs, cats and horses. Probably I wouldn’t need a swimming pool anymore, how about a valley?

3. Have you been in love before?

> Yes.

4. Who was your hottest boyfriend?

> Not consider my boyfriend, but to me I think he’s hot. His name is Mony Hach.

5. What qualities in a man attract you most?

> His character and attitude.

6. Is there anything you would like him to change?

> I just want him to be himself, we should love the person for who he/she is. I only want my partner to understand me and know what are my goals in life. It would be great if we have the same goals in life so that we can work hard together to reach our goals.

7. What’s your thought on marriage, do you believe in it and do you ever want to be married?

> I always thought that marriage is a beautiful thing in life. Because that’s when you know that you have someone there for you when you fall. You are able to trust in the one you love. And also to be love and care for till your last breath. 

8. Are you open to a live-in relationship?

> I think it is a good experience to get yourself prepare for the future. It is really not easy to find someone who you can get along and face each other everyday. Alot of problems tend to occur when both parties staying under the same roof. But definitely there will be quarrels and it really depends on how we deal with it.

9. Does your boss like you or does he take you for granted?

> I think my boss like me and no, he does not take me for granted. Otherwise I wouldn’t be here working till now.

10. If you could go on a dream holiday, where would it be?

> Paris

11. What is the wildest thing you have ever done?

> Kissing a gay.

12. Who is the one person you hate in your family?

> I don’t hate my family. They are the ones who love me unconditionally.

13. What is the one most embarrassing thing you have ever done?

> Couldn’t remember because those are the druggy days.

14. Describe your first date? What did you do, where did you go? Did you love him?

> Official first date back in 2009. His name is Conrad. We just go for lunch somewhere near our school. I don’t know whether that is called love, perhaps puppy love?!

15. If you were lucky enough to win the lottery, what would you do?

> Buy a condominium and Around-the-world tour with my family.

16. If you were caught in a fire and had to choose between saving your dog and new TV, what would you choose?

> Needless to say, my dog of course. I can always buy a new TV set, but I can never have another Bobo, the destroyer.

17. Who do you talk to more when in a problem, your mother or father?

> It was my dad at first. But not anymore, because we always quarrel once the conversation starts.

18. If you came across a genie who offered to make three of your wishes come true, what would those wishes be?

> First wish for family members to stay healthy. Second wish is to never grow old. Last wish I could be a rich, independent and successful woman.

19. Do you have any addictions?

> In the past, yes. But not anymore. I have quit it for good. Does smoking counts?

20. What are your fetishes?

> Secret!

21. What do you hate most about yourself?

> For being such a stubborn girl sometimes.

22. Do you believe that ghosts exist in the real world?

> Yes I believe! Because I’ve seen them.

23. Do you get scared of the dark?

> That depends where I am.

24. Who do you look up to most in life?

> My dad. He is really a very successful business man and responsible dad towards our family.

25. Are you fond of children?

> I’m fond of children but not babies.

26. What was the worst date you have been on?

> Isn’t any I could think of now.

27. Do you believe in God?

> I believe there is God. But I just couldn’t feel God’s presence.

28. What do you want to change about yourself?

> My attitude.

29. What is your biggest dream in life?

> To be a model.

30. Describe the greatest adventure you have ever been on?

> Outward Bound

31. Name an expensive thing that you bought and now regret buying.

> When you decided to buy an expensive thing, you shouldn’t regret. I really take time to think when buying something expensive, I should love it why regret?

32. Has a guy ever asked you to marry him?

> Ever.

33. Do you have any wild fantasies?

> Yea I do. I believe everyone does.

34. If you had to choose between your boyfriend and your best friend, who would you choose?

> Probably I would choose my boyfriend.

35. What is the one thing you are most ashamed of doing to a friend?

> Kissing my friend.

36. Would you go out of your way to help a friend?

> I would but it also depends on what’s the problem. Is my friend being like this everytime?

37. How much money do you hope to make in life?

> I want to be a millionaire.

38. What’s your favorite sports car?

> Nissan S15

39. Do you lie often?

> I hate lying but sometimes I just have no choice.

40. Who is your favorite actor?

> Tom Cruise

41. If you could go on a date with your favorite actor, where would you take him?

> A getaway vacation to an island. Surround by just the ocean and beach.

42. Do you keep secrets?

> Yes I do.

43. What is your favorite childhood memory?

> It’s family day everyday. Life back then is so carefree and happy.

44. Would you ever go hunting for sport?

> No, because I don’t want to kill any animals.

45. What pet would you have if given a chance to keep one?

> Pet tiger

46. Have you ever cheated on someone before?

> Alot of times.

47. Which cartoon did you like the most?

> DragonBall

48. How old were you when you had your first crush?

> 13

49. Have you ever kissed a girl?

> Yes, I have.

50. Do you think you are happy with your life?

> Well, this is life. Even if i’m not happy I still have to live with it. So i’m trying to stay happy.

51. If you were stranded on an island, how would you escape?

> Form a sign S.O.S with things I could find on the island.

52. Do you believe there are aliens out there?

> Yea, probably in other spaces.

53. Do you believe in the concept of life after death?

> No

54. Do you still think about your first love?

> Nope, not at all.

55. Were you ever drunk at college?

> Nah, not that I can remember.

56. At what age did you start drinking?

> 17

57. Have you ever tried to steal?

> I ever did. And it was not because I don’t have the money to pay for it. Just did it because i’m not in the right state of mind.

58. What was the wildest dare ever given to you?

> I will just keep this to myself.

59. How old were you when you went on your first date?

> 13

60. Do you ever want to win a Nobel prize of any sort?

> Nope, not really.

61. Describe the person you love.

> She is cute and has a kind heart. But things change and eventually people change too. She is not the person who i knew anymore.

62. How would you describe the person you love to your mother?

> She is an easy going person and one who treats me well. 

63. What animal is your favorite?

> Cats & Dogs.

64. Do you still ever watch cartoons?

> Yea.

65. Do you pray?

> Not anymore. I don’t know why I can’t feel God’s presence.

66. Do you ever read the bible?

> Yes I did.

67. What was High School like for you?

> I didn’t want to go to school at that time.

68. Would you ever consider putting your parents in an old age home?

> No. I wouldn’t. I want them to be around me so I can take care of them.

69. Have you ever been arrested?

> Practically, yes!

70. Do you shy away from real love?

> No. I don’t. Isn’t it a beautiful thing to find your real love.

71. What was the strangest punishment your parents ever gave you?

> Couldn’t think of any strange punishment which they gave me. My parents are very traditional.

72. Do you like going for parties?

> Yea, I’m a party animal!

73. Do you think yourfriends are hot?

> I wouldn’t say they are hot. To me hot is to describe someone who is sexy and gorgeous!

74. Are you Eco conscious?

> Depends.

75. Are you ever jealous of your partner?

> No, why should I. I’m proud to have her.

76. Have you ever been jealous of your closest friends?

> Not jealous. But probably envy.

77. Do you like experimenting with new things in life?

> We only live once in a lifetime. Of course I want to experience new things in life.

78. What super power do you dream of having?

> The ability to read a person’s mind.

79. Which famous person would you like to be?

> Supermodel Miranda Kerr. Is she consider a famous person?

80. Do you believe that there is only one love for everyone?

> No. Because it happens to me loving more than one person at the same time.

81. Have your friends said good things about your partner?

>  Both positive and negative things in fact.

82. Did you ever have a crush on your best friend’s boyfriends?

> No.

50 good questions to ask yourself and others

1. What are your nicknames? What do you prefer to be called?

> I don’t really have a nickname. I prefer to just be called Stephanie.

2. What books on your shelf are begging to be read?

> Have a little faith by Mitch Albom

3. How often do you doodle? What do your doodles look like?

> I don’t doodle, because I can’t draw. If I were to draw, I would draw a Tarepanda.

4. What do you do if you can’t sleep at night? Do you count sheep? Toss and Turn? Try to get up and do something productive?

> Facebooking or playing candy crush.

5. How many days could you last in solitary confinement? How would you do it?

> Too many days that you couldn’t even imagine. I just have no choice.

6. Do you save old greeting cards and letters? Throw them away?

> I kept all letters, cards and souvenirs given by my friends since I was 13. I believe they are memories to me.

7. Who is the biggest pack rat you know?

> I don’t know any rats!

8. When making an entrance in to a party, do you make your presence known? Do you slip in and look for someone you know? Do you sneak in quietly and find a safe spot to roost?

> I wouldn’t just slip in silently, but not loudly either.

9. What is your strongest sense? If you had to give one up, which would it be?

> I don’t have any strongest sense. If I had to give one up, could I give up the sense of knowing someone is leaving me?

10. How many times a day do you look at yourself in the mirror?

> Uncountable. I’m definitely vain!

11. What is the strangest thing you believed as a child?

> If i’m not filial to my parents, I will get struck by the lightning.

12. What is one guilty pleasure you enjoy too much to give up?

> This will be a secret.

13. Who performs the most random acts of kindness out of everyone you know?

>  I thought of my partner who may be kind towards needy people.

14. How often do you read the newspaper? Which paper? Which sections?

> I never read the newspaper anymore.

15. Which animals scare you most? Why?

> I’m not afraid of any animals as long as they don’t hurt me.

16. Are you more likely to avoid conflict or engage it head-on?

> I never make troubles unless people seek for it.

17. What was the most recent compliment you’ve received and savoured?

> You are a polite girl.

18. What is something about yourself that you hope will change, but probably never will?

> The wild side of me I guess.

19. Are you a creature of habit? Explain.

> It depends. Sometimes my everyday routine is the same.

20. Are you high maintenance? Explain.

> High maintenance in keeping up with my appearance.

21. When was the last time you really pushed yourself to your physical limits?

> About a month ago when I go through a really heart breaking time.

22. Do you have a whole lot of acquaintances or just a few very close friends? Why?

> I don’t have very close friends but only friends and a whole lot of acquaintances. I don’t trust people easily.

23. Are you more inclined to “build your own empire” or unleash the potential of others?

> Build your own empire

24. What’s a strange occurrence you’ve experienced but have never (or rarely) shared with anyone?

> Like Déjà vu

25. What do you think about more than anything else?

> Money

26. What’s something that amazes you?

> To see someone performing magic tricks in front of me.

27. Do you prefer that people shoot straight with you or temper their words? Why?

> I prefer people to shoot straight at me and not beat around the bush. I hate to guess.

28. Where’s your favourite place to take an out-of-town guest?

> Probably our local Alley Bar.

29. What’s one thing you’d rather pay someone to do than do yourself? Why?

> Manicure! The outcome of DIY doesn’t even look professional at all. Besides that, I’m a bad painter…

30. Do you have a catchphrase?

> “I’ll Be Back” -Terminator

31. What’s your reaction towards people who are outspoken about their beliefs? What conditions cause you to dislike or, conversely, enjoy talking with them?

> Seriously I have no comments.

32. How and where do you prefer to study?

> I prefer to study at home. No distractions.

33. What position do you sleep in?

> Sideways.

34. What’s your all-time favourite town or city? Why?

> City of Vancouver. Peaceful and beautiful scenery.

35. What are the top three qualities that draw you to someone new?

> Confidence/ Attitude / Charismatic

36. How has your birth order/characteristics of siblings affected you?

> In my parent’s eyes, I can never be better than my elder brother in terms of anything.

37. If you could eliminate one weakness or limitation in your life, what would it be?

> Naive me.

38. If you could restore one broken relationship, which would it be?

> My current relationship.

39. If you had to change your first name, what would you change it to?

> I don’t have a Christian name since I was born. Stephanie will be it.

40. Do you believe ignorance is bliss? Why or why not?

> Sometimes it’s better to not know than to know.

41. What do you consider unforgivable?

> By your partner’s disloyalty.

42. Have you forgiven yourself for past personal failures? Why or why not?

> I have to forgive myself in order to make amends. Shouldn’t be dwelling over the past.

43. How difficult is it for you to forgive someone who refuses to apologize?

> It’s really painful when you have to beg for the apology when someone doesn’t feel he/she is in the wrong.

44.Do you hold any convictions that you would be willing to die for?

> Apparently, nope I guess.

45. To what extent do you trust people? Explain.

> When I feel that this person is willing to sacrifice for me, wouldn’t do harm to me and only wants the best for me. This person is definitely trustworthy.

46. In what area of your life are you immature?

>  In a relationship? I must learn to be more mature in a relationship.

47. What was the best news you ever received?

> I passed my exams!

48. How difficult is it for you to be honest, even when your words may be hurtful or unpopular?

> If I have a choice, I would be honest about everything although it might be hurtful or straightforward. I don’t want to lie but sometimes I just have no choice.

49. When did you immediately click with someone you just met? Why? What was the long term result? Conversely, are you close with anyone now that you really disliked at first?

> When we are able to have a good conversation and having the same interest and goals in life. I seldom dislike someone, if I really do I wouldn’t want to hang around or interact with them.

50. When do you find yourself singing?

> During me time.